Questions before the Forever

 

1. What is your purpose in life?
2. What is your 3 most priority in your life?
3. How would you picture yourself having a family?
4. What kind of family do you want?
5. How many children do you want?
6. What if i can't have a child?
7. Do you want a child?
8. What if i don't want a child?
9. What do you think about adopting and have you consider doing it one day?
10. Do you think you can look and be beside me when i'm pushing out the baby?
11. Have you ever heard of vasectomy?
12. If it for the benefit of us, would you do a vasectomy?
13. What do you think is a husband stitch?
14. What kind of a father figure you want to be?
15. What will you prioritize in educating your children first? (Ethics, Islamic, or Academics?)
16. In what school our children will go to? and why do you choose that school?
17. Do you think Pesantren is a good place to put our children there?
18. Are you the type of father that will be mad if the kids failed at their test or have C in their report card?
19. In Islamic aspect, what do you think a good husband should be?
20. In Islamic aspect, what do you think a good wife should be?
21. What if i don't want to stay at home and would work? So both of us be working?
22. What is your thoughts if i suddenly don't want to work anymore?
23. I'm not a very good cleaner or i'm not that neat, what do you think about that?
24. What method and rituals do you think we should have in our relationship as husband and wife?
25. How will the financial be flowing in our "small family". Will it be split half-half, or your money for me and the family all and my money is my money, or we're gonna split 80-20?
26. Who do you think should handle the family financial?
27. What method should we use to up skill our relationship so we will be a solid team, have clear understanding and communication?
28. Who is the couple that you look up to, or inspiration (if you have one)?
29. What is your idea of fun for family?
30. What is your idea of fun for a mom and dad relationship?
31. What if we had a heated argument that needs to be finish soon but our children are also whining searching for us?
32. What if your mom and me had a different opinions on something that is important (parenting or cleaning method) how do you resolve that and do you pick sides?
33. How should i behave in your big family events?
34. What if one of your relatives (uncle/aunt/ cousin) bossing me around the family event trying to "test" me, what will your response be like?
35. Where will we live? 
36. What do you think of living with in-laws?
37. What do you think of living in a kos-kosan?
38. Do you think you can handle a long distance marriage?
39. What do you value the most in relationship?
40. How do you imagine our relationship in the next 10 years?